Edging

In a sexual context edging refers to the process of bringing yourself or a partner right up to the point of orgasm and then pulling back before release, and then repeating the process. Edging can be lots of fun and it’s also a great way to deepen your connection to your own, or someone else’s sexual response. Here are a few tips and techniques for edging.
Time Required: The whole point of edging is to prolong and postpone orgasm, so edging can take any length of time.
Here's How:

1. Do yourself first.
If you’re interested in doing edging with a partner the best way to practice is on your own. Masturbate but don’t let yourself orgasm. Instead bring yourself right to the point of release and slow down or stop stimulation. Do this a few times before letting yourself finish. Pay attention to how your body changes as you get closer to orgasm, and where the energy goes as you tease yourself up and then down again.

2. Handjobs.
For most people edging is most effective using your hands. If you’ve got good motor control and dexterity in your hands it allows you to control the pressure and location of stimulation and adjust the speed of stimulation easily. If your hands aren’t the part of your body you can use the most, use whatever body parts you have the greatest control over. If you’ve come to rely on penetration play it might be a good opportunity to reacquaint yourself with the art of the handjob for women or handjob for men.

3. It’s all about the other person.
If you’re edging with a partner, you need to realize that it’s all about them. The sexual thrill being the edger is the control you have, and often the lustful pleading you get to be on the receiving end of. But to do this well, you need to tune 100% into your partner, the edgee. This means paying close attention to verbal and non-verbal communication and being open to feedback all the time. It also means being confident enough to take direction without taking offense.

4. Engage all your senses.
Listen to the sounds of your partner breathing, notice how shallow breaths sound different than deep breaths. Listen for the difference between a moan that signals impending orgasm and a moan of erotic frustration. Look at their naked body. The skin can change color at different stages of arousal and you may notice goose bumps or other surface changes. You can also look for changes in muscle tension and relaxation. Pay attention to what they’re doing with other body parts, fingers, toes, hands, shoulders. You can also feel differences in temperature and body movement.

5. Be prepared to change the stimulation.
Practice different ways of stimulation, varying the kind of touch from light as a feather to firm and controlling. You can also change the direction of stimulation from up-and-down to circles to a pump/squeeze motion. As you become a more masterful edger you can try to change the stimulation more gradually so the edgee doesn’t even notice a sudden stop, but instead slowly ramps up and down without reaching climax until you’re ready for them to.

6. Change the location of stimulation.
You can also bring your partner back from the brink of orgasm by switching up where you stimulate them. Unless you’re trying to be punitive avoid just stopping stimulation altogether. Instead you can move from the genitals to other body parts (knees, nipples, thighs, etc…) If you want to make the ramping down transition smoother, integrate these other kinds of touch and places to touch during the ramping up part.

7. Make the edgee work for it.
It’s your responsibility to be in tune with your partner’s level of arousal, but you don’t have to do all the work. They can use sexual breathing techniques or squeeze their pelvic muscles to exert some control. And most importantly they can talk to you, telling you when they’re about to reach orgasm.

8. Edging for stronger orgasms.
Edging isn’t just a fun way to bring some teasing into your sex play. Most people report that orgasms from edging are more intense and stronger. If you already orgasm regularly and are looking for a way to expand orgasmic potential, playing with edging can show you what your body is capable of experiencing. It can also be powerful for the partner providing the stimulation as, when it’s done well, it shows how much power to please we all have.

9. Edging for education.
Education might not sound like a sexy motivating factor, but in order to do edging well, you need to pay close attention to your partners body during sexual arousal and orgasm. The process of learning the cues about when they are near orgasm, what they look and sound like as they are ramping up to orgasm, and what they’re like as they are coming down, is a process of becoming more aware and attuned to their sexual experience. This ability to connect will enhance almost any sexual experience with them.

10. Edging in power play.
When it comes to the consensual exchange of power, sometimes called “power play” or BDSM, edging is kind of a perfect sexual game to play. Some people will incorporate edging into sex play where the partner being stimulated is tied up. When done properly, the edgee ends up begging for release, and is rewarded for their patience with an orgasm that is all the more intense for having been built up over time.

Sex locations

Where are some of your favorite places to have sex? Here are some places I have and some places I would love to have sex. Leave your ideas please.

*In the pool
*On the couch with your roommate at home
*On the stairs in your house
*In the middle of the desert on a starry night
*On the hood of your car
*On the kitchen table
*On the washing machine while it's on
*In the dugout at a baseball field
*In a phone booth
*In a dressing room
*On a lifeguard station at night
*In the back of a limo
*In the back seat of a car on a secluded cul-de-sac or in the driveway
*In the shower
*On a ferris wheel

Strip Checkers

Strip Checkers
First both you and your mate write down a fantasy of yours on a slip of paper.
Make sure that each of you is only wearing 4 items of clothing. Woman: shirt, bra, panties, and pants. Man: shirt, undershirt, boxers, and pants.
Then play normal checkers. But when you jump one of you lover's pieces you take off one of their pieces of clothing until both of you are naked.
Next (once you are both naked) if you jump one of your lover's pieces you chose something to do to them or chose something for them to do to you.
The game goes until one of you wins and the person that wins gets their fantasy to be a reality.
This is perfect for making up or rekindling your love life.

Somnophilia

The sleeping princess syndrome, a paraphilia of the marauding/predatory type in which erotic arousal and facilitation or attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent on intruding on and awakening a sleeping partner or stranger with erotic caresses, including oral sex, not involving force or violence [from Latin, somnus, sleep + philia, love or obsession). There is no technical term for the reciprocal paraphilic condition of being the recipient, which occurs more readily in fantasy than in actuality.
Facts and Tips about Somnophilia
* Somnophilia is the sexual encouragement with rubbing the body parts by hand without force when partner is sleeping and it is also named as sleeping beauty syndrome.
* It is a behavioral disorder consists of sexual fantasy, kissing, rubbing and excitement.
* Somnophilia is caused due to behavioral or psychological problems.
* Behavioral therapy, couple and sex therapy will control the symptoms of the somnophilia.
* Give proper sex technique training to somnophilic person to improve their quality of behavior.
* Take advice of your doctor for any problem regarding to sex.

How to spice up your sex life

It really doesn’t matter how strong and long is your relationship with your partner, it doesn’t matter how many times you have sex together but for sure flame of sex life between you two going to burn out one day.
So there is always a need to spice up your sex life to maintain long and healthy relationship. Studies have shown most people split because of lack of spice in their sex life.

So if you are really interested in maintaining good relation with your partner, your sex life should be at par with the best. Here are some tips which will really gonna help you up in this matter.

1. Decorate your Bedroom

Simply decorating your bed room can help in adding spice in sex. Definitely a messy bedroom full of laundry, cable tv will distract you from concentrating on each other.
So to wildly satisfy your sex partner you should get rid all of those things from your bedroom. A clean bedroom, tidy bed and some candles and see the magic.

2. Sudden Sex

Sudden sex without any preparation is sometimes very exciting and can add up extra spice to your sex life. Approach your partner with sudden hints and attempts.

3. Sharing Thoughts

Sex becomes more entertaining if you become more expressive with your partner. Never hide your emotions and thoughts with your partner, more the comfortable you each other more you will enjoy sex.

4. Fore Play

Pretending to be your partner’s favorite fantasy character and playing fore games with each other. Dress yourself like teacher and student or nurse and doctor and talking dirty with each other.

5. Sexy Dance

Do a little sexy and intimating dance together. Women prefer to do striptease and it really works great for both. While dancing touch each others body sensually and put off each other clothes.

6. Rent an Instructional Sex Video

There are many sex videos in the market which are really helpful in learning new sex positions and techniques. These videos are generally narrated by sex therapists along with practical implementations

7. Game Plan

Challenge your partner in his favorite game like basketball. The person who wins the game do what ever want to do with him or her. This thing really helps in killing bore dome and same time provoking to have sex.

Leave your mark

Here’s a tip for all you lovers out there, whether you’re a man or a woman. Before your next romantic night in with your partner, go to a drugstore and purchase a cheap red lipstick. Then, after you’ve spent a passionate night together and you’re getting ready the next morning, leave a sweet or sexy note written in lipstick on the bathroom mirror. When your lover gets up to shower, they’ll make the happy discovery of your message to them. It’s a sexy, inexpensive and unexpected way to declare your love -- or to tell your partner what a sexual superstar they are!

Jet Jiggy

Where do you like sex? I love sex anywhere and everywhere. This one is great. Try this one and let me know how it goes.

Jet jiggy
Erotic Instructions:
Facing a jet, kneel on the seat of a hot tub and lean forward so you're on all fours. Have your partner kneel between your legs so he can enter you from behind. Once he's firmly inside you, both of you should grab on to the edge of the tub to help balance yourselves and slowly straighten up so the two of you are upright. Continue holding on to the tub for support as he pumps away.