Role plays and including them in sex

Do you want to include role plays in your sex experiences? I know you want to. You are a bit nervous. I know I even have my things I will do and will not do. Come and give me a chance. Make sure that you follow my things and role plays will work with us.

Create boundaries. The discussion of boundaries should happen before role-play is even attempted. What would you and your partner be willing to do to live out each other’s sexual fantasies? What don’t you want to happen? What freaks you out a bit? It’s all about creating an environment full of respect and trust. Of course, remember that the whole point of role-playing is to have fun -- so let your imaginations wander a bit and don’t be shy about sharing.
Fully commit. The most important aspect of role-playing is creating a meaningful, delicious, and climactic experience for you and your partner. So what does this mean exactly? For one, hanging your inhibitions at the door. There’s nothing sexy about a French maid who’s rolling her eyes and saying how stupid she feels. Accept that you’re just spicing up your sex life and have fun with it. Remember, you’re trying to create a fantasy world (and laughing in his face will bring you both back to reality super-quick.)
Have a script. Adlibbing can lead to disastrous results. Buy a script or write your own with your lover. By being fully prepared there’s less of a chance for awkward lulls or weird comments.
Rehearse. Practice makes perfect, right? The more effort and time you put in, the better the experience will be for both of you. Take the pressure off of your “first time” by accepting that it might be a little awkward but that it’ll get better and more comfortable over time.
Get into character. Without knowing the person you’re playing, the fantasy is only going to be so-so. Develop the character in your mind and don’t break from it once you begin. If you’re going to be a pilot and stewardess, change into that character the moment you walk in the room and stick with it until the “act” is over.

Hide-and-Seek Sex Games

Required Materials:
•Something you can hide
•A list of sexual treats you'd both like.
How To Play
First, draw straws or role dice to determine who will hide first and who will seek first. Whoever is the first "Hider" takes the item you're hiding and attaches a note about what sexual reward the finder gets if they find the item. Then the Hider hides the item anywhere in the house. The Seeker has 24 hours to find the item if they want to be rewarded with the sexual treat it offers. This game, also, has the benefit of continuing for as long as you want it to... days, weeks or even years!

Strip Checkers

Strip Checkers
First both you and your mate write down a fantasy of yours on a slip of paper.
Make sure that each of you is only wearing 4 items of clothing. Woman: shirt, bra, panties, and pants. Man: shirt, undershirt, boxers, and pants.
Then play normal checkers. But when you jump one of you lover's pieces you take off one of their pieces of clothing until both of you are naked.
Next (once you are both naked) if you jump one of your lover's pieces you chose something to do to them or chose something for them to do to you.
The game goes until one of you wins and the person that wins gets their fantasy to be a reality.
This is perfect for making up or rekindling your love life.

Sex games in bed

There are many things you can do to spice up your love life in bed. I will include one here. Here it is.
Fishbowl Fantasy
Required Materials:
• Paper
• Pen
• Bowl, Bag or Other Container
• Wild Imagination
How To Play
The most common version of this game involves bedroom role-playing. Each partner gets ten pieces of paper and writes down ten role-playing fantasy scenarios. Examples include prisoner and guard, doctor and patient, nurse and doctor ... you get the idea. The key here is to keep your picks a secret from your partner and don't tell them what you're writing down. Fold the pieces of paper in half and put them in the fishbowl. Each night, one of you draws a piece of paper and the two of you act out the role-playing fantasy.
This game works just as well if you write down other types of sexual fantasies, such as acts you'd like your partner to perform, time periods you'd like the sex to last, or locations in the house you'd like to have sex. The best part of this game? It can last for as long as your imagination does! Some couples even use the fishbowl as a reward system. Got a promotion at work? Pick from the fishbowl, honey, and we'll celebrate!

What is one you have tried?