Feminization

When was the last time you dressed up all pretty and felt all nice. I know it has been a while. I know you need to feel all nice and pretty. It will make you feel like you did when you started playing dress up when you were younger. You know you did it. You wore high heels, dresses, and make up. Admit it and start it up. It will make you feel pretty again.

Foreplay

It is so important that foreplay is part of sex. Without it, sex is not sex. There are some key elements to foreplay. There are undressing, kissing, petting and oral sex. This is a time when partners get to know each other. They know what turns them on and what their partners really love and enjoy. They get to know their partners bodies and how they react to different stimulation. There is no predetermined order to foreplay. It can be done in any order and multiple times. This gives the body a chance to get to know each other. Kissing is a HUGE part of foreplay and often forgotten. Kissing helps bring partners together. This should be a big part of foreplay.

Role plays and including them in sex

Do you want to include role plays in your sex experiences? I know you want to. You are a bit nervous. I know I even have my things I will do and will not do. Come and give me a chance. Make sure that you follow my things and role plays will work with us.

Create boundaries. The discussion of boundaries should happen before role-play is even attempted. What would you and your partner be willing to do to live out each other’s sexual fantasies? What don’t you want to happen? What freaks you out a bit? It’s all about creating an environment full of respect and trust. Of course, remember that the whole point of role-playing is to have fun -- so let your imaginations wander a bit and don’t be shy about sharing.
Fully commit. The most important aspect of role-playing is creating a meaningful, delicious, and climactic experience for you and your partner. So what does this mean exactly? For one, hanging your inhibitions at the door. There’s nothing sexy about a French maid who’s rolling her eyes and saying how stupid she feels. Accept that you’re just spicing up your sex life and have fun with it. Remember, you’re trying to create a fantasy world (and laughing in his face will bring you both back to reality super-quick.)
Have a script. Adlibbing can lead to disastrous results. Buy a script or write your own with your lover. By being fully prepared there’s less of a chance for awkward lulls or weird comments.
Rehearse. Practice makes perfect, right? The more effort and time you put in, the better the experience will be for both of you. Take the pressure off of your “first time” by accepting that it might be a little awkward but that it’ll get better and more comfortable over time.
Get into character. Without knowing the person you’re playing, the fantasy is only going to be so-so. Develop the character in your mind and don’t break from it once you begin. If you’re going to be a pilot and stewardess, change into that character the moment you walk in the room and stick with it until the “act” is over.

My daughter's calls

I love when my daughter calls. There is something always so sweet when she calls. When she called, I dressed her up in such a pretty dress for the prom. She needed to get ready and pretty. I made sure that she was ready. There is something about reminding her who she is and that she is my girl. I always need to remind her that she is my daughter and no one else's. She will always be my girl. I cannot believe how pretty she is when she is in such a pretty dress.

Getting ready with my daughter

I love it when my daughter helps me get dressed. She helped me brush my hair and watch me get dressed. I wanted her to feel more like a girl. I told her it was time to feel more girly. I told her it was time to get into her outfit. I told her I had a skirt and blouse ready for her. It was a sweet little black and red skirt and a cream blouse. I also had a pair of panties and bra for her. There were nylons and heels ready for her. I curled her hair and did her make up. I made her feel so pretty. I made her stand in front of the mirror and made her look at the girl that she is. I know that she is a sweet and pretty girl. She needs to know that she is a pretty girl. She needs to know that, too.

Playing dressup

I love dressing up my daughter. We were going out to eat and needed to be put into a pretty blue floral dress. I put her into a pretty lavender panties and bra. There was a nice slip, nylons, blue heels, and a blue floral dress. I did her hair and her make up. I made her feel so pretty. I love making her feel so pretty. I made sure that she felt so pretty. There is something about making her feel so feminine.

Dressing up my daughter

I always love dressing up my daughter. She was needing to be dressed up for a wedding. I love it because she always battles against being a girl. She feels that she needs to be in a tux. She is so feminine but instead she is a girl. I know how pretty she is in a dress and heels and when her hair and makeup is done. I love doing int with her. It feels so good to get a look at her when she is dressed up.

Wedding and dressing up

It is fun to dress up my daughter for a wedding. There is something so sweet and fun about making sure that she is dressed well. I always make sure that she has the right outfit. I put on a nice skirt and blouse on her. There is always a nice pair of panties, matching bra, nylons, and a 3 inch pair of heels. She always feels that she has to wear boy clothes and bucks at being feminine but I always make sure that the outfit is so pretty. I do her hair. I love it. MMMM. So pretty.

Alternative lifestyle

Having a sexuality that differs significantly from the "norm" (see Alternative sexuality) may make an alternative lifestyle necessary or desirable. A sexual orientation less common than the norm may stigmatize the individual pushing the person to seek a more accepting subculture. An example is homosexuality and the formation of the gay community.

Passion play

If you are interested in exploring the sensual side of life this weekend, or maybe even planning a surprise romantic evening for your love, this idea might appeal to you. As you know, communication plays a vital role in any relationship. There is, however, more than one way to communicate. A lot of times, expressing your feelings and emotions without words can create a much bigger effect on your love than simply telling them how you feel. The evening detailed below is designed to enhance your communication with your partner through the use of sight, smell, taste and touch. If done correctly it will leave your lover in absolutely no doubt about how much you love them, and will create memories that can last a lifetime.

Ingredients:

* A secluded area of the room, preferably a corner

* An air mattress or something soft and comfortable to lay on
- A collection of soft comforters or blankets would work well
- Satin or silk sheets if possible

* A collection of soft pillows

* Decorations in the form of plants, flowers and rose petals

* Soft romantic lighting

* A large fruit, cheese and/or deli style meat platter
- Could be catered from a local cafe

* Chocolate and other romantic finger foods

* Soft romantic background music, such as sitar music

* Sensual props that invoke different feelings, such as feathers, a sponge with a bowl of warm water, some soft material, chocolate syrup etc.

* If this is something you are doing to your partner, you may want to include a blind fold

* Whatever else you might want to include

The idea here is to communicate as much love and romance to your partner without either of you saying anything. Start off by sensually exploring different areas of your partner's body through the use of your fingertips, lips and the sense of smell. Try to stay away from the erogenous zones to start with. You want to take things slowly and thoroughly enjoy each moment. Pamper your love by feeding them different foods while looking deeply into their eyes. Basically, you want to do as much as you can to make your partner feel incredibly special by exploring all the different avenues of communication while saying as little as possible. After doing this you will soon discover that silence actually is golden!

Backhand grip

This one – kind of a backwards version of the "fist" – is a little funny, but it feels very good. This time, grab your penis from the left side rather than the right (if you're right-handed). To do this, rotate your wrist so your thumb is pointing down; you may have to pull your penis slightly to the side. It's a little awkward at first, but it's an excellent grip to use when you just want to try something other than the "Fist" for a few minutes.

Somnophilia

The sleeping princess syndrome, a paraphilia of the marauding/predatory type in which erotic arousal and facilitation or attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent on intruding on and awakening a sleeping partner or stranger with erotic caresses, including oral sex, not involving force or violence [from Latin, somnus, sleep + philia, love or obsession). There is no technical term for the reciprocal paraphilic condition of being the recipient, which occurs more readily in fantasy than in actuality.
Facts and Tips about Somnophilia
* Somnophilia is the sexual encouragement with rubbing the body parts by hand without force when partner is sleeping and it is also named as sleeping beauty syndrome.
* It is a behavioral disorder consists of sexual fantasy, kissing, rubbing and excitement.
* Somnophilia is caused due to behavioral or psychological problems.
* Behavioral therapy, couple and sex therapy will control the symptoms of the somnophilia.
* Give proper sex technique training to somnophilic person to improve their quality of behavior.
* Take advice of your doctor for any problem regarding to sex.

How to spice up your sex life

It really doesn’t matter how strong and long is your relationship with your partner, it doesn’t matter how many times you have sex together but for sure flame of sex life between you two going to burn out one day.
So there is always a need to spice up your sex life to maintain long and healthy relationship. Studies have shown most people split because of lack of spice in their sex life.

So if you are really interested in maintaining good relation with your partner, your sex life should be at par with the best. Here are some tips which will really gonna help you up in this matter.

1. Decorate your Bedroom

Simply decorating your bed room can help in adding spice in sex. Definitely a messy bedroom full of laundry, cable tv will distract you from concentrating on each other.
So to wildly satisfy your sex partner you should get rid all of those things from your bedroom. A clean bedroom, tidy bed and some candles and see the magic.

2. Sudden Sex

Sudden sex without any preparation is sometimes very exciting and can add up extra spice to your sex life. Approach your partner with sudden hints and attempts.

3. Sharing Thoughts

Sex becomes more entertaining if you become more expressive with your partner. Never hide your emotions and thoughts with your partner, more the comfortable you each other more you will enjoy sex.

4. Fore Play

Pretending to be your partner’s favorite fantasy character and playing fore games with each other. Dress yourself like teacher and student or nurse and doctor and talking dirty with each other.

5. Sexy Dance

Do a little sexy and intimating dance together. Women prefer to do striptease and it really works great for both. While dancing touch each others body sensually and put off each other clothes.

6. Rent an Instructional Sex Video

There are many sex videos in the market which are really helpful in learning new sex positions and techniques. These videos are generally narrated by sex therapists along with practical implementations

7. Game Plan

Challenge your partner in his favorite game like basketball. The person who wins the game do what ever want to do with him or her. This thing really helps in killing bore dome and same time provoking to have sex.

Leave your mark

Here’s a tip for all you lovers out there, whether you’re a man or a woman. Before your next romantic night in with your partner, go to a drugstore and purchase a cheap red lipstick. Then, after you’ve spent a passionate night together and you’re getting ready the next morning, leave a sweet or sexy note written in lipstick on the bathroom mirror. When your lover gets up to shower, they’ll make the happy discovery of your message to them. It’s a sexy, inexpensive and unexpected way to declare your love -- or to tell your partner what a sexual superstar they are!

The Monkey Sex position

I love this sex position. It is fun to do.

The Monkey
The round-thighed woman on the bed grasps her ankles
and raises high her lotus feet;
you strike her to the root, kissing
and slapping open-palmed between her breasts:
this is "Markata"

Head to toe

Wanna try a new sex position? Thought I would give you a new one to try.

Head to Toe -- The man should lie flat on his back with his legs spread and allow the woman to lower herself onto his penis, facing him. She then leans backwards, with her legs to his side and toes pointing towards his head. Both partners should be looking at the ceiling. In this position, the partners cannot see each other and must rely on their sense of touch. Neither partner has the ability to move much which focuses attention to the genitals.

Types of Kisses

There are different types of kisses you can try to help your relationship. Here are some that I have found and use regularly with those I have been with. What are some you use with those you are with?

the following is a list of some simple techniques to spice up a kiss:

*French Kiss
Usually romantic or sexual in nature (so not usual for a 'first date', in which one person's tongue touches the other's tongue and usually enters his or her mouth.

*Triumverat
Kiss between the eyes, on the tip of the nose, and then on the lips.

*Top and Bottom
Kiss the top lip, then the bottom lip, then both.

*Lickable Lips
Run the tip of your tongue along your partner's lips.

*Earlobecstacy
Gently kiss, nibble, and suck on the earlobe.

*Facial Lines
Trace the neck and jawbone with your lips and tongue.

*The Big Tease
Kiss everywhere but the lips, until your partner pulls you to their lips.

*Caressed Lips
Rub your finger gently across their lips and then go in for a kiss.

*Sensuality
Look in their eyes and whisper you want to kiss them. Press your lips gently to theirs', caress their lips with yours and then give her/him a passionate kiss.

*Cheeky
Gently brush cheeks with your partner.

*Eskimo Kiss
Gently rub the tips of your noses together.

*Butterfly
Brush eyelashes with your partner. Make a fluttering motion of the eyelash by quickly opening and closing the eye.

*Rose Petals
Make a small "O" with your lips. Press your lips against your partner's skin and suck softly. Lift your lips off a little, move over slightly, and repeat.

*Hostage Kiss
Cover your lips with tape and get your partner's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say, tell them, "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss them passionately.

*Strawberry Secret
Place a strawberry in your mouth without your partner knowing. Crush the strawberry in your mouth and feed some to your partner while you kiss.

*Cold as Ice
Put a piece of ice in your mouth without your partner knowing. Kiss them on the neck and let the ice softly touch their skin.

*Back Kisses
Snuggle up behind your partner and proceed to cover their back with little kisses.

*Foot Kisses
When your lover comes home from work, or wherever, wash their feet and give them a massage. While you're giving them the massage, lean over and give little kisses on their feet.

*Hershey's Kiss
Try not to kiss your partner all day. Throughout the day leave Hershey's kisses or some sort of romantic candy in places that they will know it's for them. Later in the day start leaving notes with poetry or quotes on kissing for them. After that, leave a love letter describing how you'd like to kiss them and the satisfaction that it would bring you. Once you feel they've had enough teasing, spend sometime rewarding them with lots of kissing! This is rewarding for yourself as well, since you've been thinking about kissing them all day too.

*Red Light Kiss
When in the car with your partner, every time you stop at a red light, lean over and kiss them until the light goes green.

*Recorded Kiss
Record the sound of yourself blowing a kiss. Then either e-mail it to your partner or leave a note somewhere with instructions to press play.

*Video Kiss
Record on a videotape or web cam yourself blowing kisses to your partner and tell them how much you miss them.

*E-mail Kiss
Draw or animate a pair of lips kissing. Then send it to your sweetheart.

*The Lost Kiss
Look around your partner, looking under things and appearing like you're searching for something. When asked what you're looking for, say "I've been looking for a kiss all day but I can't find one anywhere. Oh wait, I found it." Then give your partner a kiss.

*Wake Up Kiss
Before your partner awakes, lean over and kiss their cheek. Then give soft kisses across their cheek until you reach their lips.

*Make Up Kisses
At the end of the day, sit down with your partner and ask them how his/her day went. Silently keep track of all the bad things that happened during the day. When he/she is finished, give them a kiss for each one. When asked what you are doing, say you are helping make up for all those bad things.

*Post-It Kiss
Make a post-it note trail that leads to your lips. On each note leave a lipstick kiss and an arrow or clue to find the next note. Place the last note over or near your lips.

*Full Body Meltdown
While your partner is laying down, slip over to them and start running your tongue, very gently, up their leg, arms, reaching their lips give them a full passionate kiss.

*The Grandious Tease
Softly run your fingers across your partner's lips, lure them in to kissing you, but before you kiss, pull away and then go in for the kiss, then pull away again, etc., etc.