There are so many ways to blow a relationship. Here are some. Just remember that we are human. Get us and that we do love to be treated like humans.
Getting a Girl: Ten Ways To Blow It In A Relationship
What do you do when you've attracted a lovely person into your life and now you're terrified you're going to blow it? Or, terrified it's going to end?
Arm yourself with the following strategies, and you're sure to blow it in a relationship right from the start.
1. Assume the person is your soul mate immediately upon meeting or shortly thereafter. Look for signs that faith has brought you together and be amazed by the correlations in your lives.
2. Forget about your life, your friends, your self-care. When you have a soul mate, why would you need a life outside of the relationship?
3. Reveal everything, and test your partner with your worst behavior. Let it all hang out. After all, if this is truly your soul mate, he or she will love you no matter what.
4. Have sex right away. If you are meant to be together for a lifetime, you might as well get started on the fun part right away.
5. Ignore anything about your partner that does not mesh with your values, lifestyle, or belief system. True love can conquer such insignificant differences.
6. Do lots of drama together. Job, family, and life crises are great ways to establish a relationship and test whether or not you are meant to be together.
7. Spend as much time together as possible. When it's true love, you can't bear to let your partner out of your sight.
8. Ignore behavior that crosses your boundaries or hurts your feelings. It's true love, so it's ok.
9. Lavish a huge amount of attention on your partner or expect a huge amount of attention to be lavished on you. How else would you act if you finally found your soul mate?
10. Push the relationship forward and demand that it go deeper, in spite of where your partner is emotionally. You have the right to have the relationship be exactly how you want it to be and your soul mate owes you that.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Interesting history of condoms
Wanna know a little more about condoms? Here are some interesting facts about condoms.
1000 BC
The use of condoms has been traced back several thousand years. It is believed that around 1000 BC the ancient Egyptians used a linen sheath for protection against disease.
100 - 200 AD
The earliest evidence of condom use in Europe comes from scenes in cave paintings at Combarelles in France.15 There is also some evidence that some form of condom was used in imperial Rome.
1500s
The syphilis epidemic that spread across Europe gave rise to the first published account of the condom. Gabrielle Fallopius described a sheath of linen he claimed to have invented to protect men against syphilis. Having been found useful for prevention of infection, it was only later that the usefulness of the condom for the prevention of pregnancy was recognised.
Later in the 1500s, one of the first improvements to the condom was made, when the linen cloth sheaths were sometimes soaked in a chemical solution and then allowed to dry prior to use. These were the first spermicides on condoms.
1700s
The first published use of the world 'condum' was in a 1706 poem. It has also been suggested that Condom was a doctor in the time of Charles II. It is believed that he invented the device to help the king to prevent the birth of more illegitimate children.
Even the most famous lover of all, Casanova, was using the condom as a birth control as well as against infection.
Condoms made out of animal intestines began to be available. However, they were quite expensive and the unfortunate result was that they were often reused. This type of condom was described at the time as "an armour against pleasure, and a cobweb against infection".
In the second half of the 1700's, a trade in handmade condoms thrived in London and some shops where producing handbills and advertisements of condoms.
1800s
The use of condoms was affected by technological, economic and social development in Europe and the US in the 1800s.
Condom manufacturing was revolutionised by the discovery of rubber vulcanisation by Goodyear (founder of the tyre company) and Hancock. This meant that is was possible to mass produce rubber goods including condoms quickly and cheaply. Vulcanisation is a process, which turns the rubber into a strong elastic material.
In 1861,the first advertisement for condoms was published in an American newspaper when The New York Times printed an ad. for 'Dr. Power's French Preventatives.'
In 1873, the Comstock Law was passed. Named after Anthony Comstock, the Comstock Law made illegal the advertising of any sort of birth control, and it also allowed the postal service to confiscate condoms sold through the mail.
1900s
Until the 1920s, most condoms were manufactured by hand-dipping from rubber cement. These kinds of condoms aged quickly and the quality was doubtful.
In 1919, Frederick Killian initiated hand-dipping from natural rubber latex in Ohio. The latex condoms had the advantage of ageing less quickly and being thinner and odourless. These new type of condoms enjoyed a great expansion of sales. By the mid-1930s, the fifteen largest makers in the U.S. were producing 1.5 million condoms a day.
In 1957, the very first lubricated condom was launched in the UK by Durex.
From the early 1960s, the use of condoms as a contraceptive device declined as the pill, the coil and sterilisation became more popular.
The use of the condom increased strikingly in many countries following the recognition of HIV and AIDS in the 1980's. Condoms also became available in pubs, bars, grocery stores and supermarkets.
The female condom has been available in Europe since 1992 and it was approved in 1993 by the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA).
In 1994, the world's first polyurethane condom for men was launched in the US.
The 1990s also saw the introduction of coloured and flavoured condoms.
Present day
In more recent years, improved technology has enabled the thickness of the condom to decrease. Also, condom manufacturers have recognised that one size of condom does not fit all. You can now find condoms that are different shapes, widths and lengths.
1000 BC
The use of condoms has been traced back several thousand years. It is believed that around 1000 BC the ancient Egyptians used a linen sheath for protection against disease.
100 - 200 AD
The earliest evidence of condom use in Europe comes from scenes in cave paintings at Combarelles in France.15 There is also some evidence that some form of condom was used in imperial Rome.
1500s
The syphilis epidemic that spread across Europe gave rise to the first published account of the condom. Gabrielle Fallopius described a sheath of linen he claimed to have invented to protect men against syphilis. Having been found useful for prevention of infection, it was only later that the usefulness of the condom for the prevention of pregnancy was recognised.
Later in the 1500s, one of the first improvements to the condom was made, when the linen cloth sheaths were sometimes soaked in a chemical solution and then allowed to dry prior to use. These were the first spermicides on condoms.
1700s
The first published use of the world 'condum' was in a 1706 poem. It has also been suggested that Condom was a doctor in the time of Charles II. It is believed that he invented the device to help the king to prevent the birth of more illegitimate children.
Even the most famous lover of all, Casanova, was using the condom as a birth control as well as against infection.
Condoms made out of animal intestines began to be available. However, they were quite expensive and the unfortunate result was that they were often reused. This type of condom was described at the time as "an armour against pleasure, and a cobweb against infection".
In the second half of the 1700's, a trade in handmade condoms thrived in London and some shops where producing handbills and advertisements of condoms.
1800s
The use of condoms was affected by technological, economic and social development in Europe and the US in the 1800s.
Condom manufacturing was revolutionised by the discovery of rubber vulcanisation by Goodyear (founder of the tyre company) and Hancock. This meant that is was possible to mass produce rubber goods including condoms quickly and cheaply. Vulcanisation is a process, which turns the rubber into a strong elastic material.
In 1861,the first advertisement for condoms was published in an American newspaper when The New York Times printed an ad. for 'Dr. Power's French Preventatives.'
In 1873, the Comstock Law was passed. Named after Anthony Comstock, the Comstock Law made illegal the advertising of any sort of birth control, and it also allowed the postal service to confiscate condoms sold through the mail.
1900s
Until the 1920s, most condoms were manufactured by hand-dipping from rubber cement. These kinds of condoms aged quickly and the quality was doubtful.
In 1919, Frederick Killian initiated hand-dipping from natural rubber latex in Ohio. The latex condoms had the advantage of ageing less quickly and being thinner and odourless. These new type of condoms enjoyed a great expansion of sales. By the mid-1930s, the fifteen largest makers in the U.S. were producing 1.5 million condoms a day.
In 1957, the very first lubricated condom was launched in the UK by Durex.
From the early 1960s, the use of condoms as a contraceptive device declined as the pill, the coil and sterilisation became more popular.
The use of the condom increased strikingly in many countries following the recognition of HIV and AIDS in the 1980's. Condoms also became available in pubs, bars, grocery stores and supermarkets.
The female condom has been available in Europe since 1992 and it was approved in 1993 by the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA).
In 1994, the world's first polyurethane condom for men was launched in the US.
The 1990s also saw the introduction of coloured and flavoured condoms.
Present day
In more recent years, improved technology has enabled the thickness of the condom to decrease. Also, condom manufacturers have recognised that one size of condom does not fit all. You can now find condoms that are different shapes, widths and lengths.
Friday, September 10, 2010
My baby girl
My baby girl called this morning needing to feel pretty. She was in such need. We went to the hair salon to have her hair done up and went to her favorite beautician. We also went and had her make up done. Then we had manis and pedis done. That was one of the best things we had done. That was so sweet. She had a surprise for me. She brought an outfit to change into. She brought a cute pull over blouse, skirt, nylons, heels, panties, and bra. She changed there at the nail salon and came out dressed up so pretty. She surprised me by how pretty she looked for me. I loved the way she looked for me. I found that all the time we have shopped together that she has learned to shop for all the pretty clothes. She now knows how to shop for the pretty clothes herself.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
My girl
Prior to the call, my girl emailed me and wanted to prepare the call. She called and the scene was played out. I had the clothes ready. She came to me wearing jeans and Tshirt. I told her it was time to QUIT being a tom boy and time to be my girl. She needed to accept the fact that she is my girl and dress like a girl. I had a yellow skirt and a white blouse ready for her. I had her lingerie ready for her. I undressed her out of her boy clothes and started to dress her in her girl clothes. I put her panties on and then her bra. Her nylons and skirt were next. Her blouse was next. I am always so gentle with her. She is always fighting the fact that she is a girl. She looks so pretty all dressed up.
Friday, September 3, 2010
How to spice up your love life
20 Ways to spice up your love life
1. Why do you have to? If the combination of the two people isn't spicy enough, stay home and read a good book.
2. Let your date pick from a grab bag of coupons for different sex acts from a sensuous massage to intercourse in the room of his choice.
3. Flirt, flirt, flirt with your partner: No matter how long you've been together, flirt with each other when you go out. If you used to flirt with each other and now don't, start doing it again. If you never did, try stepping out of your "norm" and flirt a little with him or her.
4.Let your husband/date choose a sexy outfit for you to wear. Just the act of dressing for him -- outfit and lingerie -- will turn him on.
5. Go on a road trip! Just drive, no destination in mind, and see where the road takes you.
6. Do a slow strip tease, one item of clothing after each romantic dance. You probably won't get past 3 songs.
7. Wear sexy underwear that you know your mate will love – it will be an extra special gift as he unwraps his "present".
8. Play photographer and model. Whether you keep the photos or not, it is a great turn on. And a great way to find out what about your looks turns him on.
9. Make some chocolate fondue for dessert – and then brush the leftovers on each other!
10. Start with you nude in your heels and have him to put your garter belt and hose on you -- again you might get past one leg. Note -- if HE puts on your garter belt and hose --run for your life.
11. Try something you never have before – whether it be a public place, bondage, or blind folds, it will bring a whole new dimension to your lovemaking.
12. Invent your own brand of romance and it doesn't have to look like anyone else's. Romance to you might be yelling and screaming together at a basketball game. It might be snuggled up at your favorite restaurant or it might be taking a walk in the woods and holding hands.
13. Send flirty texts in the hours before your date – by dinner, the anticipation will be driving you crazy.
14. Wear new undies. Even if you don't plan for the night to go in that direction, it will make you feel more sexy and confident.
15. Share the fantasy night. Whisper your fantasy in his ear in public and let him stew in the thought until you get home. Have the stage set.
16. Watch a dirty movie. Either it will turn you on, or give you a great shared laugh.
17. Try an evening of finger foods... feeding each other gooey, messy, bites can be incredibly erotic!
18. Take a trip down memory lane. For date night, do something together that you used to love to do together. Maybe it's the restaurant where you met, bowling or renting the movie you saw together on your first date.
19. Fool around – but don't have sex. Remember high school, when you'd make out for hours and never even take off your clothes? NOT having sex can be a huge turn on.
20. Try role playing. Meet at a bar and pretend to be strangers... the excitement will be flowing in no time.
1. Why do you have to? If the combination of the two people isn't spicy enough, stay home and read a good book.
2. Let your date pick from a grab bag of coupons for different sex acts from a sensuous massage to intercourse in the room of his choice.
3. Flirt, flirt, flirt with your partner: No matter how long you've been together, flirt with each other when you go out. If you used to flirt with each other and now don't, start doing it again. If you never did, try stepping out of your "norm" and flirt a little with him or her.
4.Let your husband/date choose a sexy outfit for you to wear. Just the act of dressing for him -- outfit and lingerie -- will turn him on.
5. Go on a road trip! Just drive, no destination in mind, and see where the road takes you.
6. Do a slow strip tease, one item of clothing after each romantic dance. You probably won't get past 3 songs.
7. Wear sexy underwear that you know your mate will love – it will be an extra special gift as he unwraps his "present".
8. Play photographer and model. Whether you keep the photos or not, it is a great turn on. And a great way to find out what about your looks turns him on.
9. Make some chocolate fondue for dessert – and then brush the leftovers on each other!
10. Start with you nude in your heels and have him to put your garter belt and hose on you -- again you might get past one leg. Note -- if HE puts on your garter belt and hose --run for your life.
11. Try something you never have before – whether it be a public place, bondage, or blind folds, it will bring a whole new dimension to your lovemaking.
12. Invent your own brand of romance and it doesn't have to look like anyone else's. Romance to you might be yelling and screaming together at a basketball game. It might be snuggled up at your favorite restaurant or it might be taking a walk in the woods and holding hands.
13. Send flirty texts in the hours before your date – by dinner, the anticipation will be driving you crazy.
14. Wear new undies. Even if you don't plan for the night to go in that direction, it will make you feel more sexy and confident.
15. Share the fantasy night. Whisper your fantasy in his ear in public and let him stew in the thought until you get home. Have the stage set.
16. Watch a dirty movie. Either it will turn you on, or give you a great shared laugh.
17. Try an evening of finger foods... feeding each other gooey, messy, bites can be incredibly erotic!
18. Take a trip down memory lane. For date night, do something together that you used to love to do together. Maybe it's the restaurant where you met, bowling or renting the movie you saw together on your first date.
19. Fool around – but don't have sex. Remember high school, when you'd make out for hours and never even take off your clothes? NOT having sex can be a huge turn on.
20. Try role playing. Meet at a bar and pretend to be strangers... the excitement will be flowing in no time.
Thursday, September 2, 2010
My girl
It is so sweet that my girl called. We got dressed up for the spring dance. I dressed her up for the dance. It was so sweet to make her feel so pretty. She was so not wanting to get dressed up in such a pretty dress. She was so shocked that her mom was calling her by her girl name. She is always surprised that her mom uses her girl name with her. I made sure that I did her hair and her make up for her. It was so much fun dressing up for the dance. She had on a matching dress. I was dressed up for the dance before I got her dressed up. I was very gentle with her when I dressed her up. She was so pretty.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
All in the family
This guy still remembers the person that took his virginity. His parents had gone out and his aunt was babysitting. He was in his room masturbating and his aunt walked in on him jerking off. She said there are better ways to take care of those needs. She fucked him. As time went on, his aunt got married and moved away. He found someone else. He continues to fuck her and keeps her close. She has a daughter that he has started to play with and wants to be with. He has plans to fuck her soon. It will be interesting to see what happens.
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