The sleeping princess syndrome, a paraphilia of the marauding/predatory type in which erotic arousal and facilitation or attainment of orgasm are responsive to and contingent on intruding on and awakening a sleeping partner or stranger with erotic caresses, including oral sex, not involving force or violence [from Latin, somnus, sleep + philia, love or obsession). There is no technical term for the reciprocal paraphilic condition of being the recipient, which occurs more readily in fantasy than in actuality.
Facts and Tips about Somnophilia
* Somnophilia is the sexual encouragement with rubbing the body parts by hand without force when partner is sleeping and it is also named as sleeping beauty syndrome.
* It is a behavioral disorder consists of sexual fantasy, kissing, rubbing and excitement.
* Somnophilia is caused due to behavioral or psychological problems.
* Behavioral therapy, couple and sex therapy will control the symptoms of the somnophilia.
* Give proper sex technique training to somnophilic person to improve their quality of behavior.
* Take advice of your doctor for any problem regarding to sex.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
How to spice up your sex life
It really doesn’t matter how strong and long is your relationship with your partner, it doesn’t matter how many times you have sex together but for sure flame of sex life between you two going to burn out one day.
So there is always a need to spice up your sex life to maintain long and healthy relationship. Studies have shown most people split because of lack of spice in their sex life.
So if you are really interested in maintaining good relation with your partner, your sex life should be at par with the best. Here are some tips which will really gonna help you up in this matter.
1. Decorate your Bedroom
Simply decorating your bed room can help in adding spice in sex. Definitely a messy bedroom full of laundry, cable tv will distract you from concentrating on each other.
So to wildly satisfy your sex partner you should get rid all of those things from your bedroom. A clean bedroom, tidy bed and some candles and see the magic.
2. Sudden Sex
Sudden sex without any preparation is sometimes very exciting and can add up extra spice to your sex life. Approach your partner with sudden hints and attempts.
3. Sharing Thoughts
Sex becomes more entertaining if you become more expressive with your partner. Never hide your emotions and thoughts with your partner, more the comfortable you each other more you will enjoy sex.
4. Fore Play
Pretending to be your partner’s favorite fantasy character and playing fore games with each other. Dress yourself like teacher and student or nurse and doctor and talking dirty with each other.
5. Sexy Dance
Do a little sexy and intimating dance together. Women prefer to do striptease and it really works great for both. While dancing touch each others body sensually and put off each other clothes.
6. Rent an Instructional Sex Video
There are many sex videos in the market which are really helpful in learning new sex positions and techniques. These videos are generally narrated by sex therapists along with practical implementations
7. Game Plan
Challenge your partner in his favorite game like basketball. The person who wins the game do what ever want to do with him or her. This thing really helps in killing bore dome and same time provoking to have sex.
So there is always a need to spice up your sex life to maintain long and healthy relationship. Studies have shown most people split because of lack of spice in their sex life.
So if you are really interested in maintaining good relation with your partner, your sex life should be at par with the best. Here are some tips which will really gonna help you up in this matter.
1. Decorate your Bedroom
Simply decorating your bed room can help in adding spice in sex. Definitely a messy bedroom full of laundry, cable tv will distract you from concentrating on each other.
So to wildly satisfy your sex partner you should get rid all of those things from your bedroom. A clean bedroom, tidy bed and some candles and see the magic.
2. Sudden Sex
Sudden sex without any preparation is sometimes very exciting and can add up extra spice to your sex life. Approach your partner with sudden hints and attempts.
3. Sharing Thoughts
Sex becomes more entertaining if you become more expressive with your partner. Never hide your emotions and thoughts with your partner, more the comfortable you each other more you will enjoy sex.
4. Fore Play
Pretending to be your partner’s favorite fantasy character and playing fore games with each other. Dress yourself like teacher and student or nurse and doctor and talking dirty with each other.
5. Sexy Dance
Do a little sexy and intimating dance together. Women prefer to do striptease and it really works great for both. While dancing touch each others body sensually and put off each other clothes.
6. Rent an Instructional Sex Video
There are many sex videos in the market which are really helpful in learning new sex positions and techniques. These videos are generally narrated by sex therapists along with practical implementations
7. Game Plan
Challenge your partner in his favorite game like basketball. The person who wins the game do what ever want to do with him or her. This thing really helps in killing bore dome and same time provoking to have sex.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Leave your mark
Here’s a tip for all you lovers out there, whether you’re a man or a woman. Before your next romantic night in with your partner, go to a drugstore and purchase a cheap red lipstick. Then, after you’ve spent a passionate night together and you’re getting ready the next morning, leave a sweet or sexy note written in lipstick on the bathroom mirror. When your lover gets up to shower, they’ll make the happy discovery of your message to them. It’s a sexy, inexpensive and unexpected way to declare your love -- or to tell your partner what a sexual superstar they are!
Monday, September 20, 2010
Jet Jiggy
Where do you like sex? I love sex anywhere and everywhere. This one is great. Try this one and let me know how it goes.
Jet jiggy
Erotic Instructions:
Facing a jet, kneel on the seat of a hot tub and lean forward so you're on all fours. Have your partner kneel between your legs so he can enter you from behind. Once he's firmly inside you, both of you should grab on to the edge of the tub to help balance yourselves and slowly straighten up so the two of you are upright. Continue holding on to the tub for support as he pumps away.
Jet jiggy
Erotic Instructions:
Facing a jet, kneel on the seat of a hot tub and lean forward so you're on all fours. Have your partner kneel between your legs so he can enter you from behind. Once he's firmly inside you, both of you should grab on to the edge of the tub to help balance yourselves and slowly straighten up so the two of you are upright. Continue holding on to the tub for support as he pumps away.
Sunday, September 19, 2010
The Monkey Sex position
I love this sex position. It is fun to do.
The Monkey
The round-thighed woman on the bed grasps her ankles
and raises high her lotus feet;
you strike her to the root, kissing
and slapping open-palmed between her breasts:
this is "Markata"
The Monkey
The round-thighed woman on the bed grasps her ankles
and raises high her lotus feet;
you strike her to the root, kissing
and slapping open-palmed between her breasts:
this is "Markata"
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Head to toe
Wanna try a new sex position? Thought I would give you a new one to try.
Head to Toe -- The man should lie flat on his back with his legs spread and allow the woman to lower herself onto his penis, facing him. She then leans backwards, with her legs to his side and toes pointing towards his head. Both partners should be looking at the ceiling. In this position, the partners cannot see each other and must rely on their sense of touch. Neither partner has the ability to move much which focuses attention to the genitals.
Head to Toe -- The man should lie flat on his back with his legs spread and allow the woman to lower herself onto his penis, facing him. She then leans backwards, with her legs to his side and toes pointing towards his head. Both partners should be looking at the ceiling. In this position, the partners cannot see each other and must rely on their sense of touch. Neither partner has the ability to move much which focuses attention to the genitals.
Friday, September 17, 2010
Types of Kisses
There are different types of kisses you can try to help your relationship. Here are some that I have found and use regularly with those I have been with. What are some you use with those you are with?
the following is a list of some simple techniques to spice up a kiss:
*French Kiss
Usually romantic or sexual in nature (so not usual for a 'first date', in which one person's tongue touches the other's tongue and usually enters his or her mouth.
*Triumverat
Kiss between the eyes, on the tip of the nose, and then on the lips.
*Top and Bottom
Kiss the top lip, then the bottom lip, then both.
*Lickable Lips
Run the tip of your tongue along your partner's lips.
*Earlobecstacy
Gently kiss, nibble, and suck on the earlobe.
*Facial Lines
Trace the neck and jawbone with your lips and tongue.
*The Big Tease
Kiss everywhere but the lips, until your partner pulls you to their lips.
*Caressed Lips
Rub your finger gently across their lips and then go in for a kiss.
*Sensuality
Look in their eyes and whisper you want to kiss them. Press your lips gently to theirs', caress their lips with yours and then give her/him a passionate kiss.
*Cheeky
Gently brush cheeks with your partner.
*Eskimo Kiss
Gently rub the tips of your noses together.
*Butterfly
Brush eyelashes with your partner. Make a fluttering motion of the eyelash by quickly opening and closing the eye.
*Rose Petals
Make a small "O" with your lips. Press your lips against your partner's skin and suck softly. Lift your lips off a little, move over slightly, and repeat.
*Hostage Kiss
Cover your lips with tape and get your partner's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say, tell them, "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss them passionately.
*Strawberry Secret
Place a strawberry in your mouth without your partner knowing. Crush the strawberry in your mouth and feed some to your partner while you kiss.
*Cold as Ice
Put a piece of ice in your mouth without your partner knowing. Kiss them on the neck and let the ice softly touch their skin.
*Back Kisses
Snuggle up behind your partner and proceed to cover their back with little kisses.
*Foot Kisses
When your lover comes home from work, or wherever, wash their feet and give them a massage. While you're giving them the massage, lean over and give little kisses on their feet.
*Hershey's Kiss
Try not to kiss your partner all day. Throughout the day leave Hershey's kisses or some sort of romantic candy in places that they will know it's for them. Later in the day start leaving notes with poetry or quotes on kissing for them. After that, leave a love letter describing how you'd like to kiss them and the satisfaction that it would bring you. Once you feel they've had enough teasing, spend sometime rewarding them with lots of kissing! This is rewarding for yourself as well, since you've been thinking about kissing them all day too.
*Red Light Kiss
When in the car with your partner, every time you stop at a red light, lean over and kiss them until the light goes green.
*Recorded Kiss
Record the sound of yourself blowing a kiss. Then either e-mail it to your partner or leave a note somewhere with instructions to press play.
*Video Kiss
Record on a videotape or web cam yourself blowing kisses to your partner and tell them how much you miss them.
*E-mail Kiss
Draw or animate a pair of lips kissing. Then send it to your sweetheart.
*The Lost Kiss
Look around your partner, looking under things and appearing like you're searching for something. When asked what you're looking for, say "I've been looking for a kiss all day but I can't find one anywhere. Oh wait, I found it." Then give your partner a kiss.
*Wake Up Kiss
Before your partner awakes, lean over and kiss their cheek. Then give soft kisses across their cheek until you reach their lips.
*Make Up Kisses
At the end of the day, sit down with your partner and ask them how his/her day went. Silently keep track of all the bad things that happened during the day. When he/she is finished, give them a kiss for each one. When asked what you are doing, say you are helping make up for all those bad things.
*Post-It Kiss
Make a post-it note trail that leads to your lips. On each note leave a lipstick kiss and an arrow or clue to find the next note. Place the last note over or near your lips.
*Full Body Meltdown
While your partner is laying down, slip over to them and start running your tongue, very gently, up their leg, arms, reaching their lips give them a full passionate kiss.
*The Grandious Tease
Softly run your fingers across your partner's lips, lure them in to kissing you, but before you kiss, pull away and then go in for the kiss, then pull away again, etc., etc.
the following is a list of some simple techniques to spice up a kiss:
*French Kiss
Usually romantic or sexual in nature (so not usual for a 'first date', in which one person's tongue touches the other's tongue and usually enters his or her mouth.
*Triumverat
Kiss between the eyes, on the tip of the nose, and then on the lips.
*Top and Bottom
Kiss the top lip, then the bottom lip, then both.
*Lickable Lips
Run the tip of your tongue along your partner's lips.
*Earlobecstacy
Gently kiss, nibble, and suck on the earlobe.
*Facial Lines
Trace the neck and jawbone with your lips and tongue.
*The Big Tease
Kiss everywhere but the lips, until your partner pulls you to their lips.
*Caressed Lips
Rub your finger gently across their lips and then go in for a kiss.
*Sensuality
Look in their eyes and whisper you want to kiss them. Press your lips gently to theirs', caress their lips with yours and then give her/him a passionate kiss.
*Cheeky
Gently brush cheeks with your partner.
*Eskimo Kiss
Gently rub the tips of your noses together.
*Butterfly
Brush eyelashes with your partner. Make a fluttering motion of the eyelash by quickly opening and closing the eye.
*Rose Petals
Make a small "O" with your lips. Press your lips against your partner's skin and suck softly. Lift your lips off a little, move over slightly, and repeat.
*Hostage Kiss
Cover your lips with tape and get your partner's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say, tell them, "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss them passionately.
*Strawberry Secret
Place a strawberry in your mouth without your partner knowing. Crush the strawberry in your mouth and feed some to your partner while you kiss.
*Cold as Ice
Put a piece of ice in your mouth without your partner knowing. Kiss them on the neck and let the ice softly touch their skin.
*Back Kisses
Snuggle up behind your partner and proceed to cover their back with little kisses.
*Foot Kisses
When your lover comes home from work, or wherever, wash their feet and give them a massage. While you're giving them the massage, lean over and give little kisses on their feet.
*Hershey's Kiss
Try not to kiss your partner all day. Throughout the day leave Hershey's kisses or some sort of romantic candy in places that they will know it's for them. Later in the day start leaving notes with poetry or quotes on kissing for them. After that, leave a love letter describing how you'd like to kiss them and the satisfaction that it would bring you. Once you feel they've had enough teasing, spend sometime rewarding them with lots of kissing! This is rewarding for yourself as well, since you've been thinking about kissing them all day too.
*Red Light Kiss
When in the car with your partner, every time you stop at a red light, lean over and kiss them until the light goes green.
*Recorded Kiss
Record the sound of yourself blowing a kiss. Then either e-mail it to your partner or leave a note somewhere with instructions to press play.
*Video Kiss
Record on a videotape or web cam yourself blowing kisses to your partner and tell them how much you miss them.
*E-mail Kiss
Draw or animate a pair of lips kissing. Then send it to your sweetheart.
*The Lost Kiss
Look around your partner, looking under things and appearing like you're searching for something. When asked what you're looking for, say "I've been looking for a kiss all day but I can't find one anywhere. Oh wait, I found it." Then give your partner a kiss.
*Wake Up Kiss
Before your partner awakes, lean over and kiss their cheek. Then give soft kisses across their cheek until you reach their lips.
*Make Up Kisses
At the end of the day, sit down with your partner and ask them how his/her day went. Silently keep track of all the bad things that happened during the day. When he/she is finished, give them a kiss for each one. When asked what you are doing, say you are helping make up for all those bad things.
*Post-It Kiss
Make a post-it note trail that leads to your lips. On each note leave a lipstick kiss and an arrow or clue to find the next note. Place the last note over or near your lips.
*Full Body Meltdown
While your partner is laying down, slip over to them and start running your tongue, very gently, up their leg, arms, reaching their lips give them a full passionate kiss.
*The Grandious Tease
Softly run your fingers across your partner's lips, lure them in to kissing you, but before you kiss, pull away and then go in for the kiss, then pull away again, etc., etc.
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